How To Build Your Confidence Without Makeup - Part 2

How To Build Your Confidence Without Makeup

Let’s see how Wikipedia defines  Self confidence.Wikipedia says Confidence is a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself.  It also says Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability.

From this definition I was able to break it down into 3 B’s which are

Ø  Believe in yourself

Ø  Being certain

Ø  Build yourself

The first B is:

Believe in yourself

Always have the believe in yourself that every course of action is the best, if you decide to go to work on a Monday morning without makeup, know that your prediction is correct or was correct, how you feel and behave throughout the rest of the day will determine how confident you are in your own skin without makeup.

Keep in mind;

Ø  You are not a regular lady so you don’t need to follow the regular trend of what goes on in your office, at school, community etc be yourself at all times
Ø  Thinking less of yourself is totally wrong
Ø  Following and copying everyone around you shows that you believe in other people, other than yourself
Ø  It start from how you see yourself and what you tell yourself from within
Ø  Believing that type A is more beautiful than you would reduce your self esteem.
Ø  You wear makeup everyday because nobody says you are beautiful when you don’t wear makeup and they would tell you when you are on makeup, shows that you care more about what people think, or say of you.
Ø  Don’t make your first priority to be makeup it’s only a necessity not priority.
Ø  You are more beautiful with or without make up.
Ø  Embrace your natural beauty, speak positive words to yourself everyday
Ø  Love yourself and be certain you are the best at what you do you don’t need makeup or what any ones says to build you up.
Ø  Try to stay cheerful and have a positive outlook on life.

 “Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.”
Helen Keller

The Second B is:

Being Certain

Being certain in oneself is the key to staying confident all day long without any doubt or fear to speak in a conference, or in a large group of people. How certain do you feel of yourself when you step out of your house, when you look at the mirror? However way you look or dress; always believe in yourself.

You have to know the very first reason why you need makeup. You need to know the first basics of makeup so you don’t misuse it. Also know that you can and by all means do without makeup. You only need it to enhance your beauty not that you are not beautiful, permit me to quote this scriptures from the Bible that says you are wonderfully, and fearfully created by God. 

Your awareness of your natural beauty, comes from within, I know some of us were bulled in high school and all; and that kind of dropped our self esteem. But the truth of the matter is; we reflect how we think from the inside to the outside world, and that can re-shape, or affect people's ability to function normally and relate with us with the right signals. so start your new day with the right mindset and speak sweet and courageous words to yourself. 

Don't forget you are Beautiful.

 

to Be Continued....